The Asia’s songbird Regine Velasquez was left in tears as she talked about how she became a “third party” int he separation of Ogie Alcasid and Michelle van Eimeren.
Regine Velasquez-Alcasid wasn’t able to contain her tears while talking about the struggles she had encounter when she decided to have a relationship with Ogie Alcasid.
In an episode of Magandang Buhay wherein Regine Velasquez is one of the hosts, she talked about hwo difficult it was for her to be called the third party in Ogie and Michelle’s relationship.
Regine Velasquez admitted that what had happened isn’t something that she liked. She also admits being regretful of how they felt because she knew that there are people getting hurt because of them.
“My husband and I started that way, pero ‘yun kasi, we were good friends. Hindi ko naman sinasadya. Kasi pwede rin namang mangyari rin talaga ‘yun, eh.
“Hindi mo naman pinipili ‘yung mga mamahalin mo, eh. Parang, gusto ko bang sadyain ‘yun, gusto ko ba na merong masaktan? May mga matitinong tao na hindi naman ‘yun ang iniisip nila. It’s just that, sometimes it happens,” Regine said.
“Meron sa hindi ko alam kung anong nangyayari sa marriage nila at that time. I don’t know kasi hindi naman ako kasali doon eh.
“But it happened. But I just have to say, it was so difficult. And if I can bring back the time?
“I love my husband, but if I could bring back the time, siguro mas gugustuhin ko na wala kaming nasaktan. Na walang dalawang bata na nag-suffer because we wanted to be together,” The singer actress continued.
Regine Velasquez also admitted that eventhough Michelle already forgave her and that they are already in good terms, she still feel guilty because of what had happened.
“For a while, I have to say, I had to live with that guilt. Like I was living in that guilt and my husband would say, ‘It was not about you. It was about me and Michelle.’
“But even then, I was there. I was part of it. I was the ‘third party.’ And for a time, na-forgive na ako ni Michelle, na-forgive na ako ng mga tao, except me. I wasn’t forgiving myself. And I’m still working on it,” She said.
As Regine continues, she turned emotional, “Ayan naiiyak na tuloy ako…you know, every now and then, I would remember what happened to us and I’d still be guilty. So mahirap din to be in that situation na hindi mo naman sinasadya na magmahal ng tao.
“And I’m a decent person and I do not want to hurt anyone. That’s the last thing that I would want in my life. But it happens,” She added.
“I think na I’d already forgiven myself, ‘yung hindi na ako masyadong nagi-guilty. But once in a while I would remember, or kapag may nangyayari doon sa dalawang girls.
“But iniisip ko na lang, hindi na ‘yun ‘yung sitwasyon, eh. Ako na ‘yung asawa niya eh. I’m not outside anymore, I’m his family now. So tina-try kong tanggapin ‘yung sarili ko doon.
“But again, it’s very difficult because the kind of person that I am… I remember things. I don’t like anyone na…kasi very sensitive ako, na ako na lang ‘yung magsasakit-sakitan, kesa masasaktan kita,” Regine continued
The emotional actress then continued and gave an advice to all the people who never expected themselves to become a third party.
“Doon sa mga nagiging third party, of course we know what’s right and what’s wrong.
“But sometimes, when you are in that situation, pinipili mong ‘wag tingnan ‘yung mali. Pipiliin mo lang kung ano ‘yung nasa puso mo. And it’s very difficult to decide not to be in that situation anymore kasi doon ka masaya, eh.
“But you need to give importance to yourself. You need to love yourself. Lagi mo dapat pipiliin ‘yung sarili mo. Tingin mo na pinipili mo ‘yung sarili mo, that’s why you’re in that situation. But actually no, you’re not choosing yourself when you’re in that situation.
“Before you really make yourself involved with this person, isipin mo muna sa sarili mo kung kaya mo rin panindigan ‘yun. Kasi it’s really very, very difficult to be in that situation,” She said.
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